Christians and Personal Conflict
Flickr The largest obstacle preventing us from reconciling conflict is the lack of involving God in healing the problem. We may pray that He will sort it out, but we ignore the wisdom He provides through Scripture and the wisdom He gives to people that can counsel us. We run from our problems because we fear they are too big for us even though God tells us not to be afraid and that His perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:8). We tear down our supposed opponents with words and violence and forget about cultivating the fruit of the Spirit. We forget that God solved the most important conflict of all, reconciling us back to him through the blood of Jesus. Managing conflict isn’t something to ignore, or even win. Scripture admonishes us to seek reconciliation. Jesus says in his Sermon on the Mount that even before we go worship God at the temple (church), if one close to us is angry with us then we should first “go and be reconciled,” (Matt 5.24 NIV). Also, the Apostle Paul wri...